Safety and Resiliency building through De-Escalation and self-defense training and workshops.

  • “This training gave me the confidence that I know how to advocate for myself and defend myself if I find another person might want to harm me. The lessons in self-advocacy and boundary setting translate into everyday life and relationships.”

    —Feb 2026 participant

  • “The instructors are incredibly gifted at emotionally and mentally supporting training attendees through difficult material. The actors playing potential assailants are incredibly thoughtful about how they do their work and why they have to do it.”

    —Feb 2026 participant

  • “I cannot recommend this experience more highly. It is already positively transforming my relationship with myself, the people in my life, and public space.”

    —Feb 2026 participant

  • “This training includes a scenario of being cornered in a bathroom with a potential assailant, which I am incredibly grateful for in the current political climate. Practicing the physical self-defense skills while playing a bystander was an amazingly empowering experience.”

    —Feb 2026 participant

We offer bimonthly trauma-informed safety trainings to small groups. The trainings scale from verbal de-escalation to light self-defense, with a focus on exiting a dangerous scene with minimal impact. This program helps to empower those within the LGBTQIA+ community to build mental, emotional, and physical strength and resilience through a trauma-informed lens. They also help build community and give folks the tools to pivot out of dangerous situations in real time.

2026 De-Escalation Trainings

Saturday, April 26, 2026 in Keene

Saturday, May 9, 2026 in Concord

Saturday, July 12, 2026 in Manchester

Saturday, September 19, 2026 in Lebanon

Saturday, November 14, 2026 in Nashua

Community Need:

Our policy environment and polarized culture now create an environment that is unpredictably unsafe for people in the LGBTQIA+ community. After years of progress, we are seeing more hate, harassment, and violence against our community, even from official channels. At this point, something as simple as going to the bathroom can be fraught.

In response, 603 Equality has organized highly specific de-escalation and self-defense training for the community. We have partnered with Impact Boston, a long-time leader in teaching abuse prevention and feminist self-defense, to create this full-day class. This work generates community empowerment and safety in the midst of the current climate.

Project Description:

The training is trauma-informed, disability-aware, focused on personal safety and embodied power. This is a live scenario-based class, focused on scenarios that have been created by the current policy and social environments. We play through scenarios of what a trans or non-gender-conforming person would do when harassed. The situations sensitively and fluidly range for each participant from hallway bullying, up to an angry father knocking on your bathroom stall door. All of these scenarios apply equally to someone as a target as well as to an active bystander. Scenarios include knowledge of how to deal with private security and law enforcement, knowing your rights.

Results:

Demand is very strong and very enthusiastic, which is exciting, heartbreaking, and empowering all at once. We have clearly touched a deep unmet need with these classes, and are eager to move this embodied knowledge into the community.

Funding for this program can be provided directly to 603 Equality as a 501(c)4 organization, or through our Fiscal Sponsor, a 501(c)3 organization.

These programs are partially supported by:

  • Our 250+ grassroots funders. Donate to support here.

  • Approximately 180 in-kind / volunteer hours annually

  • In-kind support through community coalitions with non-profit partners